Will Boot Camp: CHAPTER 1
Introduction
What Is Will Boot Camp?
Books are always a good source of knowledge; in
them we find interesting pieces of information that can range from the most
fascinating to the most gruesome, nonetheless, there is an ocean of knowledge
out there, hidden within the trillions of pages written throughout our
existence.
There are many types of books, as many as desires
that appeal to human nature; there are those that talk about chemistry, poetry,
psychology, philosophy, etc—all offering a plethora of subjects, suited for all
needs, tastes, languages and ages. But there is one type that has always
fascinated me because of their power to get you riled up and eliciting a burst
of inspiration that makes you feel you can change the world and turn it around
at your will; books that get you so inspired that make you forget--if
temporarily--the not-so-happy reality we have forged for ourselves.
These books contain an insurmountable amount of
inspiration; they tell us about overcoming obstacles, how to change ourselves
and have a better relationship with others, how to become happy, how succeed in
sentimental and emotional matters, as well as financially wise— all written
there, in plain pages--- yet, why has that prosperity, happiness and sense of
self-satisfaction been so elusive to most of humanity? What’s the secret!
While not all books were created equal,
nonetheless, in general, they are ALL great guides and sources of information,
but why though the solution is laid out right in front of our eyes, that
solution is seldomly attained by most of those who read them? Why are there so many “unfortunate” people on this planet that seem to
never quite grasp the concept?
The truth is that the solution lies where the
problem resides: In our-selves, an issue that lies in a person-based factor,
rather than external causes, which constitutes the greatest obstacle and which
we must tackle in order to TRANSCEND, about which we will delve through in a
later chapter.
It intrigued
me to see how many readers of those books seemed to have found the “light at
the end of the tunnel” and while reading it, had it all down to a tee, but only
to find out, when they turned the last page and closed the cover, that THAT
sudden burst of clarity; that light at the end of the tunnel, had faded
back to a minute faint dot in an abyss
of emptiness, and leaving them with a larger void in their lives, until the
next hype comes—I was one of those readers.
Now, I see the light!
Now,
I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
Now,
I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
.
OOPS! THE LIGHT IS GONE
Compensatory
Seeking
Many of us resort to books in order to boost our
motivation so that we can find the strength and decisiveness to achieve certain
goals, which we use to compensate our inspirationally imagined achievements and
suppress the lack of them in the real world. But in the end, all that gained
motivation vanishes and we find ourselves reading another book to fill the void
left by the inspirational surge created by the last book we read, and so, we
keep on reading and going from one book to the next, waiting to find ONE book
that will change our lives, as the cliché goes, but seemingly that book never
comes, and if it does, the effects of its arrival are very ephemeral.
The worst of it all, is that the more hyped up a
book gets us, the harder it is to find one that would equate or surpass the
level of inspiration received from the last book we read; maybe we became more
demanding or the void left by it, was greater, than the one we felt before and
as a result of that we needed a larger infusion of inspiration, because our
“emotional tolerance” had increased, and as that cycle repeats itself, we find
ourselves in a psychological vicious circle which is very difficult to break
out of—but it doesn’t HAVE to be that way!
I began to figure out that there was nothing wrong
with the books I was reading, that, though some contained more convincing
and inspirational information and they
befit our personal needs at the moment, the decisive factor did not rest upon the
book itself, but upon our own WILL to PERSIST and that all that searching and
reading was no more than an expiatory attempt to escape the guilt caused by
cohabiting with our own defects.
To break vicious circle, I have created a
series of exercises to develop the discipline needed to do the things you want
to do without hesitation, because these exercises will instill in you the
decisiveness that it takes to act upon your will. These exercises entail a
series mental and physical work that adheres to a military-style regimentation
and implementation of military training which I have denominated Will Boot
Camp.
Will Boot Camp is an academy
in a book that will help you to overcome the person factor that cripples your WILL and with it your right to
succeed. It will help you overcome the obstacles, fears that hinder your
progress and rid you once and for all of
damaging habits , such as complacency
and self-induced restraining thoughts that do not allow you to spring
up into action and take decisive action
on the matters that can effect a change in your social, economic and emotional
status as well as any other issues that
you encounter on your quotidian life.
Will boot camp applies the
techniques of military training and transfers them to a complete program
designed to reboot your operating system and give you the tools you need to be
free, active and proactive. It will strengthen the muscles of your WILL so that
no task seems too tedious, too hard and too difficult to accomplish by shifting
the immediate focus to end results rather than focusing of the process to
achieve them. You will learn to act, instead of analyzing the difficulties and
crouching back into lackadaisical mode.
Will Boot Camp, is the program that will remove those heavy weights
that make it feel so difficult and uncomfortable every time you need to get up
and take action.
I know that they just feel too heavy; it is easier just to stay put,
after all, why worry too much, we won’t take with us any of our
belongings…WTH!…NO! NO! and NO, SENOR! A
king cobra looks majestic, enchanting, but it is lethal. Just because it feels
too good to stay down and do nothing and just ride the wave, that does not mean
that it is the easier and happier path, yeah, it feels good to do nothing, but
only because you have not tasted the inebriating nectar that success by
overcoming the odds brings. The torment and sadness brought by this state of mind brings about rarely produces
satisfying results, thus lingering within that vicious circle, will more likely
bring forth a state of ruin.
Want to fly? Here you will find the courage and strength to shred those
weights to pieces and make you as light as a feather but able you fly in your
OWN direction. Want to be a runner? You WILL find the WILL to run a few meters,
a mile, two…a marathon, whatever your desire is, in the race of life, or
perhaps...even a real race, if that is what you WILL, you will be able to do
it...because YOU CAN!
“Everyone is exactly where they want to be, the only difference
is
how each one interprets the meaning of WANTING.”
Financial, interpersonal, intellectual, spiritual
and career success, achievement and transcendence are things that are ALL
attainable by ANY human being, but the reality of it is that the answer to
attaining them doesn’t really lie in the lines of a book, just by `the mere act
of reading it, as stated before—true and durable inspiration for success comes
rather from APPLYING the principles outlined in those books; by actively
applying them to your personal undertakings, which implies action, persistence,
resourcefulness, etc.
Success originates from taking a step,
whether that step be forward or backwards, nonetheless; a step as a result of
your own WILL to spring up into action to change the status quo; to cause it to
change by the force and effect of action catapulted by your WILL —THAT, in
itself, for a fella whose modus operandi is leisurely tranquility, IS, indeed,
a HUGE step.
A step forward is inspiration,
a step backwards is an experience; a learning opportunity to regroup and redraw
our strategy. Steps mark the beginning of every journey and in the marathon of
walk around the world, a step backwards would place you closer to the finish line than
the ones that have not taken a step at all—the world is round!
The resoluteness required to take action does not
come as a burst of clarity, or as a sudden conviction inspired by a glorious
speech to infuse WILL, as shown in many heroic movies and tales. Neither does
it come as manifested in many paid or rehearsed testimonials pretending to
claim sudden liberation of lifetime habits just by buying and reading a book,
listening to an audio recording or watching an inspirational video. Yes, of
course; no doubt that there are exceptions, but exceptions mean a minute
portion in comparison with the general rule, and the general rule is that many
people NEVER find that book; that shining light of change that seems reachable
at one moment, yet so elusive and far away the next— so close, but yet so far!
Our actions are a transcription of what we conceive in our minds; our
personality is constructed from thoughts we hold; thoughts that arouse from
experiences we lived through, that were not inherent of our nature, but that
were constructed as defense mechanisms, and once they were born, we nurtured
them and reinforced them with fears, repetitions, words, affirmations; all
combined and which surface in a muscular action pattern we call behavior,
whether it’d be in the form of verbiage or body language, amalgamated in a
bundle we denominate personality.
Today, you have a personality that YOU erected, that YOU is the YOU you need to get rid of to
find the real ultimate YOU that is hidden behind that charade you have built,
like tartar ruining the looks of that white enamel behind it…BUT HOW?...THAT is
the point of this book, not only to tell you how, but also to SHOW YOU how…and
help you DO IT. Telling you wouldn’t be enough, because what you constructed is
tougher than steel to bend, only with the right guidance, the right infusion of
positive (and sometimes negative) reinforcement, and the right approach, could
it be shed, that is why this book is called WILL BOOT CAMP, not “Stroll in the Park Under a Summer’s Moonlit Night
Breeze.”
Old habits
are Hard to Change…
…but It is Much Harder to
Have to Live with Them!
To suppress old patterns of behavior and trend of thought is rather
difficult and strenuous task, and might require numerous sessions of
professional psychological help. That is why we are not pursuing the
suppression of any thought harbored in your mind, what we rather seek is to
subtly substitute the existing ones with new ones; fresh and powerful personality-enhancing
thoughts. Thoughts that will seduce you, to act differently, thoughts that will
enrich your personal life, not just moneywise, but in any sense that you define
as your objective.
Why do you need Will
Boot Camp?
The answer to this question is
very simple: Some people need to coerced into action, because they will never,
or rarely, take action on their own; they need to get bullied into being what
they want to become. The self-restricting thoughts they have imposed upon themselves will not let them take the initiative to do it. Some people will hardly ever take action on their own
accord, and if they do, many of the times, their attempts would at best be
desultory, and most likely they will not sustain it.
They begin reading a book and
their spirits flourish as do a trees after a rain, but when the freshness
caused by the rain wears off, that luscious green goes away and the plant
wilts; in that same way the profuse inspiration obtained from the book at hand
diminishes in intensity and then their spirits die out just as fast, and they
slouch back into the same somber spot that they were in when they began reading
it, until the bright spark caused by it becomes a distant feeling and it
is replaced by a desire to find something new...fading slowly...fading.
Now, I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
Now,
I see the light!
Now,
I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
Now, I see the light!
Now, I see the light
.
POOF! Light’s
gone…again!
The reason for this is very
simple, yet the process itself is very intricate and incorporates many
circumstances, interactions,
decisions, perceptions, mental processes, etc.;
things that are far too complex to discuss in this book; things that ultimately give way to this kind of self-destructive
way of thinking that is manifested in our behavior and personality. They
constitute the basis of our decisions, how we perceive things, how we conceive
things and how we act upon those perceptions.
This program will provide our trainees with the LEVEL OF DISCIPLINE that
it takes to follow the guidance provided by many self-help books, but which seems hard
very hard to follow— if not impossible to adhere to, because the spark of
inspiration that the books they are reading have ignited, quickly extinguishes
due to the difficulties that it presents for the readers to have to adhere to a
behavioral pattern for which the “are not cut” for, due to the amount of
discipline, persistence and WILL POWER that doing so requires.
Will Boot Camp emerges as a
counteraction to redress this issue, which affects many aspects of our personal
and professional lives and hinders our intellectual, emotional, professional
and spiritual development, by not allowing us to unleash our full potential.
Will Boot Camp, is designed to remove your tendency to focus on
the difficulties of specific tasks and help you develop a non-self-restrictive compulsion
method to act without even hesitating on the things that OUGHT TO BE DONE.
Admit It!
“You cannot defeat an enemy you
do not admit exists.”
—Michael T. Flynn
Will Boot Camp is intended for those that
WANT to be honest with themselves and ADMIT that they have not been able to
stay a course of action due to LACK OF WILL power and other issues rooted into
their character.
This is a primordial requisite
because, if one is to remediate a destructive pattern of behavior, one MUST ADMIT
what is WRONG, and KNOW what the CAUSE is in order to determine what ought to be done to redress such
behavior. No sensate warrior goes to war without intelligence about their
objectives; how would he recognize the enemy? How would he locate the enemy?
How will he know what artillery to bring? How does a soldier collect
intelligence?—A soldiers does so by LOOKING, WATCHING, OBSERVING AND
ANALYZING.
Right now, you are a soldier of
WILL, and as such you will learn to combat that lack of it; you will STRENGTHEN
YOUR WILL and you will learn to overpower situations that ATTEMPT against your
will. THIS YOU MUST DO!
But a soldier was not born
possessing any combat experience, ability to effectively wage war effectively
is not something that is generally improvised; a soldier is TRAINED, and over
time he perfects that training, adding new strategies, tactics, and even
designing his own weapons.
In Will Boot Camp you will be
trained; you will be given weapons to terminate your enemy, but you will also
learn, over time, how to make your own weapons to return effective fire when the situation calls for it.
Everything is a process; don’t seek for shortcuts, in doing so, you will only
be STRENGTHENING your enemy. ADHERE TO DISCIPLINE.
Right now, you feel your muscles are week, figuratively
speaking, you can’t even do a single push-up;
you don’t have the
WILL, nor the strength to do a 20 mile walk on the road to success; your bags are too heavy for your frame; you feel demolished by the pounding life has given you; so
many years of suffering. Oh! Poor you! A victim of the circumstances, life has
been so unfair top you!—NONSENSE!
THAT’S ALL NONSENSE! YOU ARE A WARRIOR! YOU CAN’T FEEL LIKE THAT; YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL LIKE THAT!
PUT IT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL. DONT YOU EVER, EVER ADMIT TO WEAKNESS
UNLESS THAT ADMISSION IS MEANT TO FIX SOMETHING THAT IS WRONG, OR ACCEPT ANY
INPUT FROM ANYONE THAT UNDERMINES
YOUR SPIRITS! WHOAH? THIS YOU MUST DO!
This is your SELF asking you a
question, and from hear on you won’t call anyone Sir,but SELF. You will develop
an intimate relationship with your SELF; and you will learn to RESPECT your
SELF at every step you take. You will learn to be more considerate with your
SELF, is that clear?____________________. THIS YOU MUST DO!
Are you, a maggot?
_______________ SAY IT OUTLOUD! ______________________
What are you then? _______________________ LOUDER!_________________________
Who do you RESPECT?_____________________
Who do care
for?__________________________
If you didn’t yell loudly,
as instructed; you are restrained by fear
of what others might think of you, because you are placing the senseless aceptance of others over your well-being, and that is no attitude to become a winner. Whoever
ridicules you or distances himself from you for doing attempting to overcome
obstacles in your life that are holding you back, then that person is NOT YOUR
FRIEND, so why do you choose his/her satisfaction over yours?
Who matters here?__________________
In life, the Mighty Providence endowed us
with three kinds of people: FRIENDS, ENEMIES AND ACCESSORIES. Friends whom we
must defend; ENEMIES whom we must fight against to protect our friends, and
ACCESSORIES which are tools that we can use to fight defend our friends and
ourselves. You have to be bold and think about
what is more important, your objectives or someone
else’s vacuous opinion.
I am sure you are not reading
this in a church or funeral; you are not reading it at a desk where you have
clients…If you are on a train, at the park, at home, or elsewhere, where there
are people around…scream it! (Sometimes it is a funny ice breaker when you
startle someone and then apologize by telling them, “I, am sorry. I just
got SO into the book.”
It a liberating experience, and
doing away with the shyness is one of the things that people need to do to
TRANSCEND. Use people to lose your fears; use people to gain confidence; use people to gain your freedom!
Once you overcome that social hypocrisy of living for the acceptance of others
at the cost of your happiness, you will be able to go to a fine dining
restaurant and enjoy your food eating with your napkin as a bib and using your
fingers to eat your chicken (not that I recommend that, but if it comes oput of
you and doesn’t hurt anyone, hey…!)
Don’t waste your chance to be the center of
attention, LOOSEN UP!
***Every time you are asked a
question’ make sure you ARE AWARE, VERY AWARE of what you are saying; resound
it in your head, until it sounds to you as being spoken by someone else. This,
You Must Do.
There is no place for shyness
or being embarrassed here; are you here to please others? to square yourself away? __________
Alright then! Don mind it if
people think you are crazy—people called Einstein crazy, go figure!
HALT!
DISCIPLINARY 1
IF YOU DIDN’T SAY IT LOUD...
Now DROP and give
me 21! LOUD and CONFIDENT (just let go and do it!!!).
***Every time you fail comply
with an order or fail meet certain expectations you will be required to
complete 21 phrases, that are oriented to discourage certain behavior, they are
called Statements of Truth, that is
all you need to know for now. Those that are doing it without a WI, will be
TRUSTED—that is one thing you don’t betray, to supervise yourself and punish
yourself, when required.
VERY IMPORTANT!
****MAKE SURE THAT WHEN YOU SAY
IT, YOU LISTEN TO YOURSELF, VISUALIZE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING AND TRY TO FEEL THE
EMOTION OF WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. ***
I express myself freely anywhere I want! X21
Why can you
do that?
THIS, YOU
MUST DO
FORWARD…
The Need
to be pushed
In order to shred this kind of
mentality, most people practically need to be coerced into action; they need to
be brainwashed, if you will, into believing that they can maintain the course,
because otherwise, they’d do what is only natural for them to do: Quit.
This is not an easy task,
because it involves entering information consciously to the unconscious, which
requires constant repetition as a penetrant, and emotions as a glue in order to permeate the
concept into the mind to make it stick, to get you to believe what you NEED to
believe, which will ultimately alter your habituated way of thinking—sort of
like what the military does to trainees to bring discipline and regimental
commitment out of them.
We all know what we need to do
to get on our road to financial, economic and overall personal success; we are
not morons. Who in God's heaven doesn’t know that
you have to be persistent, diligent, dedicated and that we have to have
confidence in everything that we do in order to be able to achieve the things
we set out to do? That is not the issue in 99.99% of the cases; the issue is
that we, unwittingly or intentionally, choose to do neglect responsibility, to
avoid situations or tasks that require effort and that are not easy or fun; so
we make choices that usually involve taking the most “chilling and layback”
routes; which are more in accord with our conception of “easy work.”
We choose to avoid endeavors
that are cumbersome, so we rather sit or take the easy road that takes us
through the most effortless path, the less risky and the one that is most pleasant,
which usually leads to a place where everyone shares the crumbs that successful
people; to a destination of dissatisfaction, regrets and misery, both
financial, interpersonal and emotional.
IS IT JUST A CLICHÉ?
We all have a drive to succeed,
which some of us cultivate, and some of us simply Houdini it out existence, but
nonetheless is a capacity that is attainable to everyone; and which is
proportional to the amount of effort and creativity you are willing to invest.
This is not just success with money, the success we are talking about here is
success in ANY aspect of life—any! N-E!
Can a person that has made
millions of dollars be called successful when he is so fat that he has to
depend on others to do things he could be doing had he taken care of that body?
Can a person be called successful when his children have grown to resent his
dedication to work, and as a result, he feels guilty and rejected by his children?— maybe from his vantage point, if he is a greedy person,
he might see it as such, but to most this prostrated millionaire would be something
to pity. Maybe this millionaire that provided no love to hos children is source
of hatred for people that value family and love—Success is a personal
definition; and it means, in this case, achieving that which is of most
importance to us. Success means to feel complete and independent.
Crude as it may sound, but for
some people providing for the sustenance of a family is more important than
receiving their affection while spending quality time, because in doing so, they have found their
true sense of self-worth, which is being a provider for the family.
The fact of the matter is that
success requires resoluteness,
dedication, constancy, insight, foresight, rigid discipline, focus, resilience, etc. Once you have all these elements somewhat under
control, then you will begin to see life in a different light and you will
notice how most, if not all, of your efforts will be directed towards achieving
the kind of success you are striving for.
I am sure your present state of mind is
making you perceive what I said as pursuing an impossible—right now your mind
is throwing at you all these negative emotions; it makes it seem tedious and
unattainable...and TO YOU, it is an undeniable truth, because your WILL has not
been trained or corrected. But the reality of it that it is ALL ATTAINABLE by
ANYONE—N-E-1! You just have to allow yourself to be guided; without this
training it is very unlikely to change so abruptly, behaviors that have been
nurtured for a lifetime, I am a witness to that.
Everything that you begin doing in a
constant and persistent manner WILL become a habit, success is no different.
Once you have begun to reinforce the attitudes aforementioned, you will begin
to display these attitudes more readily and naturally, just like when you go to
the gym for the first time; the first few days are the toughest, but after a
few days your body becomes more accustomed to the extraneous exercises, and as
you begin to see results, your mind begins to appreciate them, developing an affinity that seduces you to do
more; SATISFACTION is a hell of a drug!
Success is very attainable when
accompanied by a resolute WILL and the result can be very fulfilling, but for
the vast majority of humanity this does not happen, because many don’t have the
WILL to persist or to commit; we failed to make the right decisions; for some
reason we don’t take risks; for some reason we decide to work a 9-5 and put the
money in the bank so that others get rich off our efforts; for some reason we never
crave success the way other people do…BUT THAT IS PAST.
Because of these reasons Will
Boot Camp is a program that will train you to develop a STRONG WILL and teach
you to EXECUTE on the spot; a program designed to tackle the obstacles that
hinder your progress;
it places you back in control and turns you into the go-getter kind of person that you were
supposed to be.
Hard work... is hard...when you are weak in Spirits
It is tough to commit to a
course of action that requires hard work because, our “self-induced limitation syndrome” has created an
invisible cage to which we are confined in at WILL; a barrier constructed by our decisions and indecisions,
our fears and insecurities; a barrier that we have kept strengthening
through the years. As a result, we have decided we don’t want to commit to anything
that is not as
pleasurable as the comfort of choosing the easiest route, which entails
to submit to the circumstances, thus the repudiatory compulsion
we feel when having to take responsibility of something by committing to
a set of actions that require an effort from us and
which demand that we get out of our comfort spot.
Don't
measure yourself for unresolved problems and insecurities you may have, but
measure your worth by your courage to confront problems that would have driven
you to the ground.
Successful people are creative, but creativity becomes difficult when you dwell in a mindset
that is destructive and distractive, because
we rather let others do the thinking and consume the products of their
thoughts, which we pay for with the remuneration we receive from the common
work we do, while living as rich and happy kings IN OUR IMAGINATION. Common deeds produce common results; common occupations
earn common salaries; common people generally are not exalted or recognized
and as a result common achievements bring little satisfaction.
We can TRANSCEND and go beyond if we
genuinely decide to, but instead of seeking to be extraordinary, unwittingly,
we decided to collect the crumbs that those in the competition for success;
that is why many have never approached that gorgeous woman that could have been
your wife, because you felt she was out of your league and she ended up with
someone way below your level that ruined her soul and her beauty. That is why
you lost your friends, who moved to opulent lives and made new friends that
shared their dreams and attitudes---hell! You never dared tell anyone about
your most fervent dreams, instead you fantasized about them and lived them
vicariously...that your unchangeable sorry past, from this present on, you will
write your splendid future.
LEARN TO WANT IT TACKLING THE PERSON FACTOR
You decide your life, your
company, your earnings, your happiness… What do you want? Wish for it just
enough and your mind—the universe—will conspire for you to receive it, that is
the secret---that universe IS WITHIN YOUR HEAD; that conspiring is your
unconscious tuning in to the new ideas and thoughts (desires) that you are
infusing it with, to be later displayed as behavior that is oriented to the
fulfillment of those thoughts—THAT is the true secret!
Motivation to create will
boot camp
Will Boot Camp emerges out of
my own need to make a positive change in my life, to change the direction in
which circumstances were taking me. I had so many dreams and desires to change
my life, but I mostly dreamed of things but never got quite to act upon them––I
was too pusillanimous. I just got caught up in the bubble of just EXISTING––Yes, existing— existing in a world that
suited my pretensions at the moment, that did not demand great effort and that
didn’t return great rewards either, because your winnings, in the casino of
Life, are proportionally as big as the amount you gamble–– only Life is much
fairer that casinos are!— I had my job, a car, a very active sexual life, going
to clubs, having fun, but nonetheless…just existing.
Then a new change of mind came—REALIZATION,
and new insecurities appeared; worries that I hadn’t had before, ideas,
ambitions, hopes, etc.
I got into sales, and as many of people in
the sales business, I began to read books that further infused me with that
emotional dose of you get from listening top Amway diamonds— yes! You can make
it, too!—and it is true…
At that moment I felt a desire to find a way to put to use all those great books I had
read, but that for some reason did not get me moving the way I had imagined
they would, because even though they made sense to me, because of the
applicable concepts that they made mention of, I had
a bad habit of “laxing” and lack of WILL and initiative; it was more
comfortable to drift in the direction I had been drifting—or so I believed.
Knowledge is Not the Issue; You are
I believe those self-help books
are great; they all have good advises in them and they are great fountains of
inspiration for people to take initiative, but what they don’t take into
account is that most of their readers don’t have
the WILL, to put their good advises in action and to adhere to a commitment.
Knowledge is not the barrier
for most people; every human being knows that perseverance and hard work with
some creativity, confidence, etc. are key elements of success. The barrier is
something that lies within their psyche and its relation to the body; it is the
type of person they became over time; the physical body restrained by the
mindset accustomed to taking it easy; a body used to obey a mind that has been
habituated to constantly avoid uncomfortable actions and decisions, which
evolved in a cocoon of complacency.
Just imagine telling someone that to lose
weight, they only have to run at least 2 miles every morning and do pushups and
sit-ups and follow a healthy diet. And then, you tell that person exactly how
to do the pushups to enhance their effectiveness, and all that good stuff; you
tell that person how exercises can change their lives and how they need to be
constant and persistent to succeed; you tell them a barrage of dieting tips,
etc., etc., etc., …but you forget that that person is not in shape, not because
he doesn’t know what to do—he knows how he got fat, unless he is a nimrod, but
he is fat because he lacks the motivation to follow those instructions; he
lacks WILL to challenge his “malaccustomed” mind and body. He’s just missing
that spark of WILL POWER that allows people to take command and action, where
acting is not to his comfort; he just hasn't got the discipline
to do what he knows has to be done; he lacks that energy that opposes
complacency. He’s out of shape because he became so lazy, that he lost the
drive that compels people to do what is
NECESSARY instead of what is more COMFORTABLE or that which requires the least
effort.
These books overlook the fact
that those traits can only come from a mind and body trained over the years,
since childhood, when they began forming habits of working and doing what was
expected of them, maybe having to be compelled at first by their parents, but
later adapted and that adaptation became the norm, developing into a WILLFUL person;
while those that find it so difficult to take action began to cultivate their
present state during their childhood, aided by the lack of discipline instilled
by loose parents that were overprotective and the child ended up with NO
SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY; or, if they were disciplined
by their parents, that discipline was lost by a long period of complacency
and their bodies and minds got so used
to that state, that they had lost their ability to adequately cope with and
respond to external demands—they just dropped out of the race--- they
really had no obligation to do so, so why keep up?
For those people to effect a
significant change they need more than advice, the only way is by flooding their brains with convincing
information to elicit a positive emotion,
followed by a behavior that is in accord with their thoughts and emotions.
The only way to accomplish this
task is by “regimentalizing” these factors, so that they can be strictly
enforced by coercion, using an Instructor, which serves as the main catalyst
that takes the place of the persistence they lack; someone that persists for
them by pushing them through until they can persist on their own. Our
instructors will push the WILL out of our trainees, until they are ready to act
on their own, that is why we recommend that you involve someone else to push
you beyond your comfort if you don’t trust your honesty or level of commitment.
It all depends on what you
think is better, some people can be honest with themselves and understand the
importance of completing the program successfully. An instructor is highly
recommended, but not essential; it all depends on your own personal experience
and how honest you are with yourself.
I know what it feels like to be
a slave of your own self-destructive behavior; to want to accomplish great
things and to want bring great ideas to fruition and be halted every time by
indecisiveness, procrastination and plain perspective “unluckiness.”
So I wrote this book, to share
it with everyone who is in a similar situation, so that they can form part of a
mutual support community and at the same time to serve them as support and
orientation to liberating themselves from themselves—if worked for me, the
pinnacle of incredulity, then it HAS to work for you.
A
BRIEF STORY ABOUT PERCEPTION
I was going through very
difficult times where nothing seemed to work for me, as if a force guided the
circumstances to disfavor me in my undertakings, if you can call them that, or
so was my perception at the moment. One day I came a across a tiny but very
interesting book, The Power of the
Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy which captured my thoughts very and led me to
understand quite a few things about how mental predispositions can define our
reality.
Another book among the many
that I read was The Secret, which was
excellent, but which I found hard to believe because of the high amount
fantasticism used to explain the construct of a successful mentality and how
this mindset leads us to change the circumstances around us to produce the
results we want just by focusing on what we DESIRE.
Even though it sounded too magical, reading it, I began to
understand how all of our negative thoughts easily permeate our minds and how
once they were rooted in it, they became our Operating System, our essence and
our personality; all working in a synergistic synchrony, as our defense
mechanism in order for our minds to avoid guilt, feelings of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and despair.
Why will boot camp will work for you
If you are a person that has gone or is going through difficult
situations, no matter of what sort, that can be changed by YOUR actions, but
somehow you don’t seem to get it going; Will Boot Camp is for you. Our program
will endow you with the necessary tools to begin reprogramming your unconscious
so that all those preconceived notions are flushed out of your caput.
With this training, you will build yourself up to the point where you
can begin being more proactive in your life’s direction to regain or gain the
control you lost or never had.
Just like military boot camp builds the bodies of trainees, in the very
same way Will Boot Camp will build the muscles of your will power, by espousing
constructive behavior, influencing and strengthening it through constant
repetition through immersive exercises.
Will boot camp, will eliminate those negative feelings, by instilling
new ones using the very same principle by which you learned them:
AUTOSUGGESTION, by doing, thinking and feeling what is being taught, to make
sure it permeates your mind and that it weakens the undesired behavior or
thought process.
Will Boot Camp has been written thinking of people that have potential
to do and achieve any goals that they have in mind, and that rule applies to
most human beings. Who doesn’t want to live happy and without having to go
through life living under other people’s shadows? Yes, money is not something
that many will be willing to sacrifice their peace and happiness for...if they
had it, that is.
Many are not happy, not because
they don’t have money, but because they have other issues in their lives. Will
Boot camp will guide you through, so that you can search, attack and destroy a
hidden enemy that hides deeply inside your psyche, running its psy-ops
stealthily.
If almost every
human being has the potential to be successful, and everyone wants to be
successful, then why are there so many unsuccessful people?
The answer to that question lies in one simple answer: Lack of WILL to
succeed.
There is no human being on this planet that wants achieve something and
hasn’t; if they have not, it is because they didn’t really mean it.
End of chapter 1
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